I have been sensitive to spirit all my life, and the direction that it has taken me has always been surprising, but where as many are still pondering the question is there life after death. The answer for me personally is already proven fact. I have seen too much throughout my life to believe otherwise and though there are still many unanswered questions. The validation that has been given has been undeniable.
My Journey started with my brother Jonathan, who I have wrote about in other articles. Jonathan passed to spirit in 1999 of a congenital heart condition, spawning a sudden onset of illness to an otherwise healthy man of age 20 that lead to his death just 2 weeks later. Since then I have been on a journey, that has tested my faith, patience, view of reality and struck the core of my very being. That being said it is a journey that has allowed me to understand our connections with those who pass over to the spirit world and therefore allowed me to offer help to others in understanding just how much our loved ones, guides and teachers influence our life.
So with that being said here are 5 ways in which you can communicate with your loved ones in spirit.
People have had readings for centuries and this way is nothing new, the medium allows the spirit of a loved one connected to you to come close to them and offer messages from the other side. From my own experience there are many ways in which they can do this, through their senses, sight, hearing, touch, smell and taste, to direct thought communication or a mixture of the two.
There are many types of readers out there however and not all of them work with spirit, some work with higher forces, others work with cards, and other forms of divination, some have direct connections to other forms of consciousness.
So what is good to look for? Well a good medium, will always offer communication that you can validate, things like past memories, certain aspects of the person’s personality, they may even exhibit physical attributes of the person. One of the most unusually I have had was bringing the spirit through of a gentleman who suffered from a stroke, in front of a room of 100 people, he was very gentle, but throughout the whole reading, I had no use of the left hand side of my face, and would talk just through using the muscles on the right. Something I could not replicate if I tried. So if this is the option for you, then do some research before moving forward.
Have you ever had the dream of someone who has passed away and woke up with the image of the dream in your mind for at least a day. A lot of the dreams will tend to take the have the following attributes a) they tend to start mid way into a situation, b) the loved one is there, and immediately the conscious mind asks, how can this be? You died? c) upon hearing this the person will explain either they didn’t die, and there was some mistake or just put you at east that they are fine. d) they deliver the message and you wake with their voice echoing in your head?
Well this is because spirit can manipulate your dreams. According to Dr Michael Newton in his book “Journey of Soul” where he gives the information he was given by several patients he regressed into the afterlife, explains that when we have several dreams a night, the spirit with the help of a guide can scan the dreams, take images from some of them, and then implant themselves into the next dream cycle. So if in your first dream you are in a street playing football, and in the second you are riding a horse in a meadow, you may dream of the loved one riding a horse through the street. The aim is to get a steady connection of which the conscious mind will take to. This is why they don’t like to focus on their passing, because knowing their physical body has died and the pain that has caused will sometimes break the connection and wake you up.
When you have these dreams write them down and pay attention to the message, this is something you can ask for, but the spirit will only step forward when your ready.
Meditation is another way in which you can bring forward your connection with spirit very easily and there are literally hundreds of different techniques to try, however one of the best methods I have done, is to allow your mind to simply drift into a meditative state through music.
This is a very simple technique of setting your intent to communicate and strengthening the connection. Take some time for yourself and sit somewhere comfortably and just listen to some relaxing music, classical or ambient seems to work best, but basically any music without words that is relaxing is good. Take some deep breaths and release any negativity and anxiety and let the music take you on a journey, what landscapes does it form in your mind. Be aware of the details you perceive and accept them into your awareness, then ask if there is anyone from spirit that comes in love and light that would like to make themselves known.
You may be surprised to what you may find, even if you just simply get a few words, anything is better than nothing, and we all start somewhere, each time I have done this with people in my development groups I have been very surprised as to just how much they have seen.
Developing your own senses.
It is my experience that more often than not, the spirit of someone who has passed will try and get your attention, and they can do this in a number of ways. For example, they can draw your attention to a song on the radio, touch you very gently on the shoulder, back of the neck or hairline, or speak to you in that time when your drifting to sleep, often people start by feeling a presence. One of the techniques I have used when working with someone is to ask the spirit to touch a part of the persons body without telling them, and then validate when they feel it.
We are naturally psychic, think of it this way, it is science fact that any thought you have, your brain is aware of six seconds before you are consciously. So anything you thought right now when reading this article, your brain manifested that thought six seconds ago, think how long that is, six seconds ago, you may not have been reading this part of the article, so how can you react to it. What if someone says something to you and you react. How does that work. I believe it is because humans are naturally telepathic and sense so intuitively that we don’t realise we are doing it.
Choosing to develop this side of your essence is a decision only you can make and it will enhance your life, but as I was told when starting this journey, that you have to do this for you and no one else, you cannot do it to speak to the dead. As though it is a part of it, sometimes you have to be prepared for what comes through, which is amazing, but without the right context and respect, frightening too.
This to me is a way only for those who are more experienced in working with their psychic senses, and is in many ways the more risky of the techniques to communicate with spirit, but the rewards that I have received by doing this myself have been unimaginable.
There are now loads of different apps and devices that can be used during paranormal investigations, or just during home sessions that can communicate with spirit, most of these are designed to use radio either using analogue or digital frequencies, and only work once a person has built a connection to spirit.
The device we are using in the video below is called the SCD2 and was developed by a Youtube channel called Huff Paranormal. This session was taken from a live youtube stream our paranormal group do every month, where we ask for spirit to communicate using the various devices we have.
In this video Jonathan comes through and offers a message, so profound that it literally blew me away.
We are timeless and our soul is forever and slowly but surely the human race is waking up to this fact. As more and more people are becoming somewhat aware of the fact having this contact, being spiritual, and knowing we are always connected to those who have come before us and those who are yet to come, is vital. Those we love don’t walk away, they walk beside us every day.